Why dating is important

A man is burdened with expectations right from the beginning.He has to be brave, charming, funny, sensitive, emotional, built well, etc.Sinking under the weight of so many expectations, men who fail in some of these areas will find themselves isolated in the dating market for no other reason except that they couldn't satisfy ALL the expectations thrust upon them.

But the truth is, we don’t just date on Valentine’s Day, our birthdays, or our wedding anniversary.With Valentine's Day coming up, now is a good time to finally let the cat of the bag.Dating is doubly difficult for men than it is for women.Nobody asks for someone else’s number anymore, they wait for their “crush” to post their Snapchat name on twitter or if they’re feeling a little adventurous they may just “slide into the DM”.Telling somebody they look nice has slowly turned into commenting a fire emoji or heart eye emoji on the latest Instagram selfie.An excessive amount of emoticons, favorites on a tweet, and a Snapchat streak have all been accepted as ways of flirting.Going on a date is no longer dinner and a movie, or a walk on the beach, or even mini golf…everything is about “Netflix and Chill” or waiting until the next party to talk.It seems like nobody actually puts in the effort to date anymore, there are no dates or phone calls.The rules of the game have shifted in favour of the women decisively so much so that some men have completely given up on dating, and instead finding succour in video games or apps like Secret and Tinder.Here are a few reasons why dating is a woman's game and why that's not such a great thing after all.


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