I’d like to know your rules for having a friends with benefits arrangement.
The truth is, there’s no definitive answer about a lot of these things.
I went from “on the fence” to over the fence in a hurry on that one just because I felt like her decision to allow me to pay was in bad taste. For instance, if yours is an old-school Butch/Femme pairing, you can bank on the fact that the Femme is most likely waiting for the Butch to make the first move. Men have been complaining about that one for centuries. Then there are other questions to consider based on a well you actually know each other. Do you trust her enough to go into her home blindly?
I personally love doing the asking and feel a sense of satisfaction from making the first move. If you aren’t in the full trusting mode of your relationship, you may want to stick with public places.
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