She asks ugly questions like, “ Did I do something wrong? Men are like rubber bands: They pull away and, if you don’t run after them, they will often spring back.
For a woman, the stage of uncertainty should be a time to reflect on what she get.
You begin to question your partner, your feelings, your past, your future, your body, your hair, your car, everything.
This uncertainty by no means is an indication that he is the wrong guy for you though.
In fact, if you assume uncertainty is a clue to end it then you will never get past that step to an exclusive relationship that will then lead to intimacy and commitment.
In the first stage of dating, we find ourselves attracted to a potential partner. It is our hope that the feeling is mutual, that the timing is right, and that we will have an opportunity to explore the possibilities.
In stage two, the challenge is to recognize a shift from feeling attraction to feeling uncertain if that partner is right for us.