But, there's one word that's now being thrown around more than any other word: crazy. I liked her, but she was too crazy.”Sometimes, we even say crazy with a positive connotation: “Dan, you'll love her.
Bizarrely enough, these words seem primarily directed at women, but they are rarely directed at men.
We don't ask how she’s crazy; there's just an implicit understanding. All guys seem to somehow know what crazy is, does and means.
If you look up the word “crazy” in a dictionary, you'll get a ton of different definitions.
What do we actually mean when we call a woman “crazy? You probably shouldn't be with her, but she’s not crazy. But instead of calling her crazy, why not actually explain how she's being manipulative?
A conversation is a two-way process, so there has to be give and take on both sides.
Dating as an institution is a relatively recent phenomenon which has mainly emerged in the last few centuries.
From the standpoint of anthropology and sociology, dating is linked with other institutions such as marriage and the family which have also been changing rapidly and which have been subject to many forces, including advances in technology and medicine.
And somewhere along the way it might seem that you love us just as we are, but rarely does it work out that way. They see rough edges, and they want to sand them off. The knowledge that you are thinking, “If he could only...” is a deeply disturbing thought, and perhaps more sinister is the idea that this behavior is so common that even if you aren’t the kind of woman who wants change, we expect that you do and are only biding your time. I have a buddy that has plans to attend a Nicholas Sparks book signing so he can tell the man to KNOCK IT OFF! That’s the surest sign that something needs to be discussed.
We have chosen our car, hair, friends, home and hobbies because we enjoy them. Not calling you back even though we said, “I love you? You can save the questions about musings until you see a change in our behavior.