HIS MATURITY LEVEL What I’m referring to here is “emotional” maturity.You can find out about this rather quickly when you meet a guy simply by observing how he reacts to things and how he treats the people around him.So you’ve read his profile, and he seems like a great catch…but how can you be sure?I’m sure you’ve heard that in order to find love, you should throw out your “checklist” – you know, that laundry list of items in the back of your mind that describe your ideal man. It seems to me his dating style could result from this.
We discussed Tim’s relationship patterns, and how he’s in a constant cycle between three women.
Maybe you’ve also heard the opposite: That you SHOULD have a detailed breakdown of what’s important to you so that you can attract such a man into your life…and keep out the guys who’ll eventually let you down.
What I’m going to offer you here is something a little different – a few key items that will help you determine if the guy sitting across from you on a date is a quality man who is capable of a commitment.
You can also get a good read on his emotional maturity level by seeing how he responds to stress.
Does it overwhelm him to the point that he shuts you out?